Healthy relationships: What they are and what they are not.

Relationships can be amazing and fun or challenging and difficult. Both people in the relationship have value and worth and deserve to be treated well by their partner. It takes both people working together to have a healthy relationship.
A Healthy Relationship:
Respects the others opinions, beliefs and boundaries
Actively listens to the other person to gain understanding not just to form a response.
Is kind and treats the other person the way they want to be treated
Is honest and truthful in all situations- no “white” lies
Understands and is able to empathize when the other is going through a difficult time
Perseveres standing strong together in tough times
Protects
Trusts to do things independently as well as together
Gives, being able to compromise
An Unhealthy Relationship:
- Jealous does not trus
- Possessive-demanding of your time
- Selfish– not giving
- Intimidating- willfully scares
- Easily angered – not understanding
- Demanding- wants what they want when they want it
- Arrogant- thinks they are better than you
- Stubborn- not willing to compromise
- Forceful/Hurtful- does not respect you or your boundaries
While this is not an extensive list, it gives you a good idea of the differences of a healthy vs. unhealthy relationship.
Any relationship can go through a tough time. However, if you are in an unhealthy relationship that attacks your value and worth, there needs to be a change. If you are unmarried, you may need to put a hold on the relationship and seek counseling.
If your partner is unwilling to see a counselor, you may need to move on. If you are married, you definitely need to seek counseling. Working on a relationship is not easy.
Both partners need to be ready to work, make changes and grow into a more loving and solid relationship.
To take the Healthy Relationship Quiz click HERE. Or visit the link below:
Sources:
- www.loveisrespect.org
- www.hh76.com5-1-2022 item no. 9397YA “You are More Than a Relationship”
- www.hh76.com2-15-2019 item no. 9393TL “When Is It Time To Get Out”








