You want to "do the right thing." You want to support her as best you can, but you aren't sure what that looks like. Guess what? You're not alone in being confused, overwhelmed, and maybe even afraid. She's probably feeling exactly the same way. AbbaCare is here for BOTH of you, to help you decide where to go from here.
Don’t run and hide. You have responsibilities, and we can help you meet them.
Don’t pressure her. You're a team. Becoming educated on the pregnancy options is the first step.
Don't be silent or uninvolved. It's your right and your responsibility to care for her, and to be a part of these important changes in your lives.
Don't let your fear of the unknown overwhelm you. Talk to us. We have male counselors who can listen and help.
Communicate. Listen when she talks to you about her pregnancy options, and let her know your thoughts and concerns. Our trained counselors can help you think through options together.
Take responsibility. Advise her to take a medical test to confirm her pregnancy. At AbbaCare, we offer free pregnancy test provided by our registered nurses.
Educate yourself. Learn more about the pregnancy options in order to make an informed decision. At AbbaCare, we will provide you with all the information at no cost. We do not profit from any decision the two of you decide to make.
Protect Yourself and Her From Medical Complications. Before you make any pregnancy decisions, it is important to make sure the pregnancy is viable and that she has been tested for any possible STDs. Unknown STD's can increase the risk of medical complications during or after an abortion. AbbaCare provides free STI/STD testing and treatment - for BOTH of you.
When considering an abortion, her health and safety is important.
We can help you understand all your adoption options.
We can talk about all your concerns to help you decide if parenting is right for you.